Saturday, May 17, 2008

Clara's continually emergent personality



We can't get enough of Clara these days. She is full of energy and sweetness, and she is developing strong preferences of what she likes to do, say, and wear. For example, we often come across her either wearing interesting outfits or requesting help in assembling interesting outfits. And then, of course, we sometimes just dress her up ourselves and bask in all of her Clara cuteness.


On a related note of general Clara-love, we are happy to report that Clara's first Sunday in nursery last week was wonderful. She didn't even look back when Jeremy dropped her off, and every time I swung by the nursery to check on her (which was pretty often, I will admit) she was just happily playing or singing or spilling water on herself (why didn't we spend more time teaching her to drink out of a cup before she turned 18 months old??). And of course we were thrilled to hear that she followed up every request with a "please" and every offering with a "thank you." What a sweet pea.

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

Jeremy B, ABD

After two long years of PhD coursework at Syracuse University, and after nine years of post-secondary education, I am thrilled to report that Jeremy will never again set foot in a classroom as a student. Yes, Jeremy is now officially ABD, which is shorthand for "All But Dissertation," which is code for Jeremy is not really a "student" anymore. He passed his oral defense of his comprehensive exams last Thursday, which was the final hoop to jump through before being able to focus all of his academic time and talent on researching and writing his dissertation. Of course, the dissertation is arguably just as grueling as the PhD coursework, but Jeremy loves to research and is thrilled to be done taking classes and exams.

Jeremy's advisor and his wife graciously treated us to a wonderful dinner on Saturday night to celebrate, and Jeremy has done nothing but relax and sip cream soda ever since. OK--if you know us at all you will know how far from the truth that is, but he does feel great about being finished! I am just tickled with what a great student he is and how much he invests into working hard in everything he does. It feels great to be married to an official PhD Candidate rather that to just a PhD Student. Congrats, JB!

Thursday, May 08, 2008

Golden thoughts

During my first year or two at BYU I worked for the children's librarian at the Harold B. Lee Library. I enjoyed my job, especially because I got to see all of the newest books for children and young adults in my role as copy editor of the Children's Book and Play Review. Once a year--maybe twice--we held a book sale to clear out our collection of review copies. At one of these sales, my boss handed me a book I'd never heard of, Phillip Rothman's The Golden Compass, and told me I should read it, that it was a wonderful book that she absolutely loved. I bought it, took it home, and thought very little of it for the next eight or nine years until about six months ago when the hubbub surrounding the Compass movie first exploded.

My mom asked me whether I knew anything about the book, and I said all I knew was that a respected children's librarian thought it was great and that it was sitting on my bookshelf. As the furor over the movie increased, Jeremy decided to read it, then I did, and then just this week we rented the movie and watched it. And now here are my thoughts:

As I recall, the biggest controversy about the movie/book/author is the purported anti-religion/anti-God/anti-Catholic bent. After having read the book and seen the movie, I will say that this attitude is much more prevalent in the movie than the book. As I read the book--which is an intriguing, complex yarn--I was reading it through the current cultural lens, trying to identify any anti-God messages. And, with me reading for this, I didn't feel like it overpowered the book in any way. I think one could read the book as somewhat anti-Catholic, but it would be much harder to convincingly argue that it's blatantly anti-God or anti-faith. I'm told that these sentiments are more clearly conveyed in the next books in the trilogy, which I haven't read and therefore cannot comment on. Regardless, I consider myself to be a reasonably good reader, and I think it would be a stretch to read The Golden Compass as a blatantly atheist text. And yes, I say this despite the fact that Rothman is an avowed atheist. The author is dead, people! (That is figurative; Rothman is obviously alive, but the author does not control a text after writing it; rather, readers become co-authors in creating meaning in the text, meaning that the author's intention is not paramount--perhaps not even that relevant.)

So, with all of that said, I'll move on to the movie, which neither of us really cared for. First, I would say that it is much more blatantly anti-Catholic, in particular, and more generally anti-religion/faith/God. Perhaps this is because, in part, movie makers typically assume that viewers are generally stupid and need everything spelled out for them. Yet if that's the case, the movie was disappointing on many levels, since despite the movie's obvious efforts to reveal plot secrets and details without letting the reader puzzle them out at all, Jeremy and I had to wonder whether someone who hadn't read the book would be able to adequately follow the confusing twists and gaps in the storyline. Unfortunately, the film seemed more keen on highlighting special effects and costuming than on character or plot. It was visually compelling, but as a story I thought the weaknesses overpowered the strengths.

So yes, I enjoyed the book, although I think it's more of an adult read than a tween/young adult read. (I think any novel with a child as a protagonist is automatically labeled as a book for children, even though I think the complexity of plot and theory in the book would go over most kids' heads, although everyone likes animals, right? :) And while I don't currently feel overly interested in reading the rest of the trilogy, Jeremy says he'd like to, so perhaps I will as well.

Wednesday, May 07, 2008

By the way...


We are having a baby! I'm due September 19, and we found out last week we are having a baby boy! No names yet, but when we asked Clara what the baby's name was, we think she said "Beau." So look forward to that...

Tuesday, May 06, 2008

Clara at 18 months

Clara went to the doctor yesterday for her 18 month check-up. She is healthy and happy, which of course we knew, although she is a bit sluggish in the weight department. She's 33 inches tall, still has a big noggin, but is hovering just below 23 pounds. Yes, friends, she is what my people like to call long and lean. I wonder where she gets that?

Thursday, May 01, 2008

Fire Hazard

We hadn't used our baseboard heaters for a couple of weeks until just a few days ago. We turned on the one in Clara's room, since her room is by far the chilliest, and when we came to get her from her nap her room smelled really weird...like burnt kettle corn. We turned her heater on periodically with the same results and couldn't quite figure out what the problem was. Last night when we went to bed I felt uneasy about turning on her heater, so we turned on the heaters in the front of the house in order to warm the bedrooms.

And then I had an epiphany: Clara must have put something in the heater in her room. This morning, I pried the front panel off the heater to reveal this:



I gave Clara her pacifier so she wouldn't try to take a bite, but she was still pretty devastated when I took the crispy delight away from her. Kids...