Saturday, July 12, 2008

And we're back...


Well, loyal readers, it's been awhile, but I'm happy to be back with my first original post in nearly a month. We are happily settling in to our new home in the Inland Empire, and I honestly have a difficult time imagining a more wonderful place to live. We just returned from the second leg of a city park extravaganza to celebrate the opening of a new bike path between three of the city parks. Much food and fun to be had in beautiful weather. As we pulled into our garage for a pit stop before heading out for free Dutch oven dinner later this evening at the last of the three-park tour, I said, "I can't imagine living anywhere better than this!" And yes, I realize that it's difficult not to be happy in summertime weather that typically hovers around 80 degrees, and I realize that we have a long winter ahead of us, but none of this troubles me. All we've done in our marriage is slog through long winters, and I can't imagine even north Idaho gets more snow than scenic S-Y, NY!

And I will also freely admit that life seems much more rosy since my whole family is back together. I know our seven week separation was for a good cause (I've just got to carry this baby to term this time!), but I truly felt each of those 42 days away from Jeremy. Brutal. We are much happier to be settled and following each other around like lost puppies. And Clara loves having Dada back as well. If he leaves the house at all, she wanders around saying, "Dada! Dada!" until I reassure her of a swift return.

Here are a few pictures to whet your waiting whistle for the adventures and intrigue that lie ahead...



Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Fun Aunt Megan

I decided to poach this post from my sister's blog because I love the pictures she took of my sweet baby, and I also cannot believe how much fun she packed into just two hours with Clara. What a great birthday gift. Thanks, Megan!

And now, in Megan's own words:

So for my sister's birthday, I volunteered to watch the Lovely Clara while my mom and Rachel went to Sundance for lunch. I'll be honest, I was a little nervous that Clara would not be convinced that Aunt Megan is tons of fun and would take good care of her. As it was, there were only a few anxious utterances of "Momma!" and a whole lot of fun to be had.

First we took a walk around campus, since Clara loves her stroller, and she was particularly pleased with the fountain in the courtyard of the JFSB. When she got tired of that, we went to the Bean Life Science Museum. She loved the animals: she meowed at the cats (cougars, leopards, etc.) cawed at the birds, and quacked at the ducks. I think she thought something was odd about all these animals, since they all stayed perfectly still. She got over it though when she saw the lions. She spent the rest of the time jumping with the pouncing lion and waving and laughing. Uncle Chris even rode his bike from work to his lunch break to take part in the fun.

Our last stop on the Trip O' Fun was to the Academy Library where she kept busy running around and climbing on the Clara-sized chairs. She did condescend to pose for my camera, for which I'm grateful.

Good times, friends. Good times.




Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Happy Days


One of the worst things about the temporary separation in our family is that we have missed spending two very special days together: Father's Day and of course--the most special day of all--my birthday: the big 2-8. But from what I hear Jeremy was well taken care of on Father's Day, for which I am grateful, and I certainly have been well taken care of on this most special of days. My mom treated me to a fantastic lunch at Sundance, and then to a ridiculous piece of chocolate/strawberry/cream cake at a little Italian restaurant in downtown Provo. My sister watched Clara for me, Jeremy's parents invited me to a fun birthday fete last night, my brother made two special trips just to say Happy Birthday, and my nieces and nephews have treated me to various renditions of "Happy Birthday" since this morning. Great times.

So thank you to everyone for taking such prodigious care of my family and me. And don't feel too bad for us: at least we'll be together for Jeremy's birthday!

Friday, June 06, 2008

I like it when we eat new things


Nothing says "Welcome, summer" like a girl's first-ever popsicle. She surely enjoyed the treat, and when the last bit fell off the stick she spent several minutes working to put the stick back through the popsicle. I will admit that the whole event turned into quite a sticky situation, but her glee was worth the mess.

Thursday, June 05, 2008

One hundred and six days

So I added the ticker you see to your right so I could watch in living color the countdown to our baby boy's arrival. One hundred and six days seems like a long time, which is kind of funny since every day I worry that he will come early like his sister. Not worth it. My OB is planning my third glorious c-section for somewhere around September 12, so I think I'll just hope to make it until then. That's only, like, 99 days. Right around the corner.

In the meantime, I'm most looking forward to a great reunion with Jeremy in only 27 days. And we are both looking forward to moving into the world's greatest rental. Please enjoy, as we do, this view of the house and this view from the house. Ah, Coeur d'Alene. So far, north Idaho has been very good to us. Now, if only we could actually live there. Just a few more weeks!



Sunday, June 01, 2008

I can drive two thousand miles

For those who might still be unaware, we have moved/are moving from lovely Central New York to lovely north Idaho. Jeremy will be doing his dissertation research in the region, so we'll be living there for the next two years. We had not anticipated moving the family in shifts, but with my higher risk for preterm delivery I needed to get established with my new OB in Idaho as soon as possible. Clara and I have been gone from Syracuse for two weeks, and Jeremy will join us when he finishes teaching his summer course at SU--a riveting six weeks on "America and the Global Environment."

Anyway, Clara and I are currently enjoying the comforts of home at my parents' house after an extremely long trip across these United States and a few stressful days in Coeur d'Alene visiting the doctor and looking for a place to live. But now Clara and I have a place to go back to later in the month, and we will be pleased as punch when Jeremy joins us!

My mom mercifully joined us for our long drive across the country. I don't know whether anyone was monitoring weather in the midwest a week and a half ago, but we managed to be driving across Nebraska during a horrific storm. We even ended up driving through standing water in a little town where we'd stopped for lunch. I wish I'd taken a picture, but we more or less looked like this:


All right, there's a chance I'm exaggerating, but the whole day was totally unnerving, and it took us nearly 14 hours to travel what should've taken us about 10. Miserable. The next day was equally rainy, but on our last day of travel between Montana and Idaho the sun came out and lit upon the splendor that is Coeur d'Alene, and I took it as a sign of good things to come. I don't think my mom has many pleasant memories of our road trip. When I said, "Well, I guess I can never ask you to drive across the country with me again," she just said, "That's not true. You could ask..." Mmm-hmmm. Oh well. Clara was amazingly well behaved, although I think she was more or less broken by the time we finally arrived. She didn't even seem to have the will to fuss; she just sat in her carseat and slept or stared out the window. Sad.

At any rate, we are all surviving, we are grateful for our blessings, and we cannot wait to be reunited in a few weeks! In the meantime, enjoy some pictures of the happier moments on the roadtrip of infamy:

Clara enjoying a stretch break in Kirtland, Ohio.


Throwing "yocks" (rocks) into the water. This girl loves her yocks.


At a rest stop somewhere.


A break at the BK, also somewhere along the route between New York and Idaho.


Enjoying Memorial Day in Coeur d'Alene.


Enjoying some grandpa time. Clara may possibly love "gampa" more than she loves me. Only time will tell...

Saturday, May 17, 2008

Clara's continually emergent personality



We can't get enough of Clara these days. She is full of energy and sweetness, and she is developing strong preferences of what she likes to do, say, and wear. For example, we often come across her either wearing interesting outfits or requesting help in assembling interesting outfits. And then, of course, we sometimes just dress her up ourselves and bask in all of her Clara cuteness.


On a related note of general Clara-love, we are happy to report that Clara's first Sunday in nursery last week was wonderful. She didn't even look back when Jeremy dropped her off, and every time I swung by the nursery to check on her (which was pretty often, I will admit) she was just happily playing or singing or spilling water on herself (why didn't we spend more time teaching her to drink out of a cup before she turned 18 months old??). And of course we were thrilled to hear that she followed up every request with a "please" and every offering with a "thank you." What a sweet pea.

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

Jeremy B, ABD

After two long years of PhD coursework at Syracuse University, and after nine years of post-secondary education, I am thrilled to report that Jeremy will never again set foot in a classroom as a student. Yes, Jeremy is now officially ABD, which is shorthand for "All But Dissertation," which is code for Jeremy is not really a "student" anymore. He passed his oral defense of his comprehensive exams last Thursday, which was the final hoop to jump through before being able to focus all of his academic time and talent on researching and writing his dissertation. Of course, the dissertation is arguably just as grueling as the PhD coursework, but Jeremy loves to research and is thrilled to be done taking classes and exams.

Jeremy's advisor and his wife graciously treated us to a wonderful dinner on Saturday night to celebrate, and Jeremy has done nothing but relax and sip cream soda ever since. OK--if you know us at all you will know how far from the truth that is, but he does feel great about being finished! I am just tickled with what a great student he is and how much he invests into working hard in everything he does. It feels great to be married to an official PhD Candidate rather that to just a PhD Student. Congrats, JB!

Thursday, May 08, 2008

Golden thoughts

During my first year or two at BYU I worked for the children's librarian at the Harold B. Lee Library. I enjoyed my job, especially because I got to see all of the newest books for children and young adults in my role as copy editor of the Children's Book and Play Review. Once a year--maybe twice--we held a book sale to clear out our collection of review copies. At one of these sales, my boss handed me a book I'd never heard of, Phillip Rothman's The Golden Compass, and told me I should read it, that it was a wonderful book that she absolutely loved. I bought it, took it home, and thought very little of it for the next eight or nine years until about six months ago when the hubbub surrounding the Compass movie first exploded.

My mom asked me whether I knew anything about the book, and I said all I knew was that a respected children's librarian thought it was great and that it was sitting on my bookshelf. As the furor over the movie increased, Jeremy decided to read it, then I did, and then just this week we rented the movie and watched it. And now here are my thoughts:

As I recall, the biggest controversy about the movie/book/author is the purported anti-religion/anti-God/anti-Catholic bent. After having read the book and seen the movie, I will say that this attitude is much more prevalent in the movie than the book. As I read the book--which is an intriguing, complex yarn--I was reading it through the current cultural lens, trying to identify any anti-God messages. And, with me reading for this, I didn't feel like it overpowered the book in any way. I think one could read the book as somewhat anti-Catholic, but it would be much harder to convincingly argue that it's blatantly anti-God or anti-faith. I'm told that these sentiments are more clearly conveyed in the next books in the trilogy, which I haven't read and therefore cannot comment on. Regardless, I consider myself to be a reasonably good reader, and I think it would be a stretch to read The Golden Compass as a blatantly atheist text. And yes, I say this despite the fact that Rothman is an avowed atheist. The author is dead, people! (That is figurative; Rothman is obviously alive, but the author does not control a text after writing it; rather, readers become co-authors in creating meaning in the text, meaning that the author's intention is not paramount--perhaps not even that relevant.)

So, with all of that said, I'll move on to the movie, which neither of us really cared for. First, I would say that it is much more blatantly anti-Catholic, in particular, and more generally anti-religion/faith/God. Perhaps this is because, in part, movie makers typically assume that viewers are generally stupid and need everything spelled out for them. Yet if that's the case, the movie was disappointing on many levels, since despite the movie's obvious efforts to reveal plot secrets and details without letting the reader puzzle them out at all, Jeremy and I had to wonder whether someone who hadn't read the book would be able to adequately follow the confusing twists and gaps in the storyline. Unfortunately, the film seemed more keen on highlighting special effects and costuming than on character or plot. It was visually compelling, but as a story I thought the weaknesses overpowered the strengths.

So yes, I enjoyed the book, although I think it's more of an adult read than a tween/young adult read. (I think any novel with a child as a protagonist is automatically labeled as a book for children, even though I think the complexity of plot and theory in the book would go over most kids' heads, although everyone likes animals, right? :) And while I don't currently feel overly interested in reading the rest of the trilogy, Jeremy says he'd like to, so perhaps I will as well.

Wednesday, May 07, 2008

By the way...


We are having a baby! I'm due September 19, and we found out last week we are having a baby boy! No names yet, but when we asked Clara what the baby's name was, we think she said "Beau." So look forward to that...

Tuesday, May 06, 2008

Clara at 18 months

Clara went to the doctor yesterday for her 18 month check-up. She is healthy and happy, which of course we knew, although she is a bit sluggish in the weight department. She's 33 inches tall, still has a big noggin, but is hovering just below 23 pounds. Yes, friends, she is what my people like to call long and lean. I wonder where she gets that?

Thursday, May 01, 2008

Fire Hazard

We hadn't used our baseboard heaters for a couple of weeks until just a few days ago. We turned on the one in Clara's room, since her room is by far the chilliest, and when we came to get her from her nap her room smelled really weird...like burnt kettle corn. We turned her heater on periodically with the same results and couldn't quite figure out what the problem was. Last night when we went to bed I felt uneasy about turning on her heater, so we turned on the heaters in the front of the house in order to warm the bedrooms.

And then I had an epiphany: Clara must have put something in the heater in her room. This morning, I pried the front panel off the heater to reveal this:



I gave Clara her pacifier so she wouldn't try to take a bite, but she was still pretty devastated when I took the crispy delight away from her. Kids...